{"id":5586,"date":"2024-07-30T15:35:18","date_gmt":"2024-07-30T15:35:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/albanitaly.al\/?p=5586"},"modified":"2024-08-30T14:02:14","modified_gmt":"2024-08-30T14:02:14","slug":"fantazmat-por-kush-tha-qe-duhet-te-puthesh-nje-zhabe-per-te-gjetur-nje-princ","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/albanitaly.al\/sq\/fantasmi-ma-chi-lha-detto-che-devi-baciare-un-rospo-per-trovare-un-principe\/","title":{"rendered":"&quot;FANTAZHAT&quot;. POR KUSH THA SE DUHET TE PUTHSH NJE KALAM PER TE GJET NJE PRINC"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Dashuria e par\u00eb, q\u00eb nuk harrohet kurr\u00eb, dashuria e njohur n\u00eb internet, dashuria q\u00eb n\u00eb realitet \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm d\u00ebshir\u00eb. Grat\u00eb ia besojn\u00eb autores, gazetares Cristina Calzecchi Onesti, rr\u00ebfimet, emocionet, zhg\u00ebnjimet e tyre, por mbi t\u00eb gjitha pyetjet e shumta, q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb shpjegoj\u00eb psikoterapisti, doktor Fabio Norcia.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fantazmat \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr i ri, n\u00eb gjysm\u00eb t\u00eb rrug\u00ebs midis nj\u00eb vepre narrative dhe nj\u00eb eseje, nj\u00eb ekskurs i larmish\u00ebm sjelljesh t\u00eb zakonshme p\u00ebr shumic\u00ebn e burrave n\u00eb \u00e7ift. Jan\u00eb shembuj t\u00eb \u00e7rregullimeve t\u00eb shumta t\u00eb personalitetit, t\u00eb cilat e b\u00ebjn\u00eb njeriun jo vet\u00ebm \u201ct\u00eb brisht\u00eb\u201d psikologjikisht, por shpeshher\u00eb edhe egoist dhe agresiv. Grat\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t&#039;i njohur ato. Jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur veten, por edhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbatuar strategji t\u00eb afta p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar burrat, q\u00eb jan\u00eb gjysma tjet\u00ebr e qiellit, t\u00eb rizbulojn\u00eb men\u00e7urin\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb humbur. I takon ekspert\u00ebve t\u00eb psikik\u00ebs dhe sjelljes njer\u00ebzore t&#039;i ndihmojn\u00eb ata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zemra e librit, n\u00eb gjysm\u00eb t\u00eb rrug\u00ebs midis trillimit dhe jo-fiksionit, p\u00ebrb\u00ebhet nga 12 histori t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta t\u00eb treguara n\u00eb vet\u00ebn e par\u00eb pa ndjekur nj\u00eb skem\u00eb klasike narrative (fillimi, zhvillimi dhe epilogu i nj\u00eb historie), por duke raportuar ekskluzivisht pjes\u00ebn emocionale t\u00eb p\u00ebrvoja sentimentale t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuara nga grat\u00eb q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb historit\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebrmes pen\u00ebs s\u00eb autores, Cristina Calzecchi Onesti. T\u00eb <em>dosje rouge<\/em> ajo q\u00eb i bashkon historit\u00eb, n\u00eb dukje shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme nga nj\u00ebra-tjetra, \u00ebsht\u00eb nga nj\u00ebra an\u00eb mungesa e nj\u00eb momenti krahasimi t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb, i cili u l\u00eb protagonist\u00ebve mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e zgjedhjes gjat\u00eb zhvillimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje - si\u00e7 tregohet edhe nga Novella Medievale q\u00eb mbyllet. rishikimi i tregimeve - dhe, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, largimi p\u00ebrfundimtar, pa shum\u00eb shpjegime, i objektit t\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre, &quot;si nj\u00eb mjegull e lagur n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes pran\u00eb zemr\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00eb gruaje t\u00eb dashuruar&quot;. Nj\u00eb fenomen q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shfaqur kaq shum\u00eb vitet e fundit, saq\u00eb nga pik\u00ebpamja juridike dhe p\u00ebr pasojat e r\u00ebnda i ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb shkas krimit t\u00eb fantazm\u00ebs. Prandaj titulli &quot;Fantazmat&quot;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Protagonist\u00ebt e librit, duke n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb ndryshme personale shenjat e mosfunksionimit t\u00eb disa marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve, b\u00ebhen t\u00eb gjith\u00eb pre e leht\u00eb e \u201cvampir\u00ebve t\u00eb energjis\u00eb\u201d q\u00eb ndeshen. Pik\u00ebrisht atyre dhe t\u00eb gjitha grave t\u00eb dashuruara u kushtohet libri, me shpres\u00ebn se identifikimi i vetes n\u00eb nj\u00eb ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb histori mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrshpejtoj\u00eb proceset e nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimit dhe t\u00eb njohjes s\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje q\u00eb nuk ia vlen t\u00eb vazhdohet m\u00eb tej. P\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur k\u00ebt\u00eb \u201cq\u00ebllim terapeutik\u201d n\u00eb fund t\u00eb \u00e7do tregimi ka nj\u00eb analiz\u00eb t\u00eb sjelljes nga neurofilozofi Fabio Norcia, i cili shpjegon shum\u00eb mir\u00eb se sa her\u00eb pas \u201cmarr\u00ebveshjeve\u201d fshihet n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nj\u00eb psikopatologji apo nj\u00eb \u00e7rregullim mendor. T\u00eb m\u00ebsosh ta njoh\u00ebsh mund t\u00eb n\u00ebnkuptoj\u00eb shmangien e shum\u00eb situatave edhe m\u00eb dramatike, t\u00eb cilat kalojn\u00eb nga dhuna psikologjike n\u00eb dhun\u00eb fizike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tregimet marrin n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb lloje t\u00eb ndryshme burrash bazuar n\u00eb rolin e tyre shoq\u00ebror, nj\u00eb lloj antologjie e re e &quot;Lumit Lug\u00eb&quot;, por e dashuris\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Cristina Calzecchi Onesti<\/strong>, i lindur n\u00eb Ascoli Piceno n\u00eb 1962, \u00ebsht\u00eb gazetar dhe ekspert i komunikimit strategjik. Ajo ka punuar p\u00ebr TV, Rai dhe Mediaset, gjithashtu si autore, duke shkruar p\u00ebr revista mujore dhe gazeta online. Ai drejtoi nj\u00eb gazet\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat e njeriut dhe aktualisht \u00ebsht\u00eb gazetar n\u00eb La Discussione. Ajo ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb e p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb politik\u00eb, mjedis dhe \u00e7\u00ebshtje sociale. P\u00ebr gati dhjet\u00eb vjet ajo ishte spin doktoresh\u00eb p\u00ebr parlamentar\u00ebt n\u00eb Dhom\u00eb dhe Senat.<strong>Fabio Norcia, <\/strong>i lindur n\u00eb Siena n\u00eb vitin 1948, ai u diplomua p\u00ebr Mjek\u00ebsi dhe Kirurgji n\u00eb 1976 dhe m\u00eb pas u specializua n\u00eb Pediatri. Ai jeton dhe punon n\u00eb Firence. Ai b\u00ebn pjes\u00eb n\u00eb kategorin\u00eb e neurofilozof\u00ebve, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt studiojn\u00eb mendjen duke u nisur nga zbulimet e neuroshkenc\u00ebs. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb an\u00ebtar i Shoqat\u00ebs Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare t\u00eb Neuro-Psikoanaliz\u00ebs dhe themeloi Shoqat\u00ebn Kulturore \u201cAnima la tua Anima\u201d, me seli n\u00eb Firence n\u00eb via Pisana 70r, ku zhvillohen takimet.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Il primo amore, che non si scorda mai, l\u2019amore conosciuto su internet, l\u2019amore che in realt\u00e0 \u00e8 solo desiderio. Le donne affidano all\u2019autrice, la giornalista Cristina Calzecchi Onesti, le loro storie, le emozioni, le disillusioni, ma soprattutto i tanti interrogativi, cui cerca di dare una spiegazione lo psicoterapeuta, il dottor Fabio Norcia. 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